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The extended family was ripped apart by the revelation, and some of the relatives on brian s side dont speak to merryn s. Hammond angry, depressed and unable to talk about the sexual abuse she suffered as a young girl at the hands of an older cousin, erin merryn was told by. On a family trip up to lake geneva, wisconsin, to visit her grandparents, merryn, then 11, awoke one night to her older cousin brian touching her. Join facebook to connect with erin merryn and others you may know. As a child, erin merryn was abused by two people she knew. It is named after a woman, erin merryn, who was sexually abused as a child by a neighbor and then an older cousin. Merryn found her voice at when her younger sister said the words shell never forget. Child sex abuse advocate named glamour woman of the year. If erins law had been in effect back then erin might have prevented the assault of her sister. Erin obrien born january 17, 1934 is an american actress, active during the midtwentieth century and best known as the leading lady of arguably the first madefortv movie, citation needed girl on the run, which also served as the pilot for the television series 77 sunset strip written by roy huggins and starring efrem zimbalist jr. Elevenyearold erin merryns life was transformed on the night sh. My mission in life is to give kids a voice and put sex offenders out of business. Erin merryn is an author, activist, speaker, wife, and mom to young human children and a fur baby named bailey.

She says the guilt and shame of these experiences robbed her of innocence. We then got into wrestling and i was beating up my older cousin brian and my other. It is the first law passed in the us requiring sexual abuse prevention education taught to. The extended family was ripped apart by the revelation, and some of the relatives on brians side dont speak to merryns. The focus of all title i programs is to help eligible. Erins law founder to share story at rockford child abuse. To prevent future sexual abuse of children, erin merryn is sharing her. The words brians gross spoken from her little sister broke her silence. When i have been through so much pain and hurt and have to live with the scars every day, i get angry knowing that others think it is all made up or they brush it off because my cousin. When erin merryn was 6 years old, she was sexually abused by a friends. She has been interviewed by a number of media outlets including oprah, good morning america, cnn, and london times, among others. Along with the trust issues, one of the hardest parts to deal with is the feeling of not being believed or supported, especially by your own grandparents and extended family. Sex abuse survivor speaks out against keeping secrets columbian. She went on to become an author and crusader against child sex abuse and molestation.

After enduring a childhood filled with sexual abuse and rape she decided to. Erin merryn is an author stolen innocence, living for today, an unimaginable act, activist, and founder of erins law. Erins story september 1996 lake geneva sleepover at grandparents woke up to cousin abusing her age 11 abuse from cousin lasted 2 years family parties, holiday get togethers, when babysitting younger cousins april 1998 disclosed to sister, allie, when she discovered cousin brian was doing the same thing to her. In my opinion i believe my cousin brian is living for today and hates the person he once was. Merryns family, including her two sisters, moved to another neighborhood in the same town when merryn was 8, and she stopped seeing ashley. Named by people magazine a heroes among us and one of fifteen women changing the world in 2014. She is the author of stolen innocence, living for today, and an unimaginable act.

Erins cousin who lived near their new home would begin to sexually abuse her. Erins law requires public schools to teach personal body safety every year prek12th. A voice that flies across america and speaks at many of these cacs that exist taking people back to my experience at the cac and this time sharing all the details because i no longer carry the. Facebook gives people the power to share and makes the. Over the years, she said, most of her relatives came to her side. Erin merryn born february 2, 1985 is the author of stolen innocence, living for today, and an unimaginable act. Cousin brian denied everything at first but eventually confessed. Sex abuse education in new jersey schools erins law. Book erin merryn for speaking, events and appearances. Elevenyearold erin merryns life was transformed on the night she was. Erin went to an outpatient program at a hospital to participate in groups a young girl was molested by her cousin, brian. Childhood sexual abuse survivor turned author, speaker, child advocate and activist erin merryn is the founder and president of erins law. Brian was the cousin abusing me and now i was finding out he was abusing her. Merryn said telling about brians abuse caused a split in her family.

It turned out cousin brian was abusing merryns little sister, too. She also develops posttraumatic stress disorder and has to learn how to cope. She was named a glamour magazine 2012 woman of the year and is the force behind getting erins law passed. I had just gotten home from school when my aunt called asking if there was any way i could come over in two hours and babysit her other babysitter had canceled on her. Erin merryn earned her masters in social work in 2009. The audience turnout was impressive and included more than 50 of the nations leading youth sports organizations, who came together to discuss child sexual abuse in youth. Brian cousins was born on may 9, 1959 in portland, maine, usa. Erin merryn a voice for the voiceless author, activist, speaker, wife, mother, and force behind erin s law glamour magazine 2012 woman of the year. As the abuse continued, and as she was forced to see her abuser over and over again in social situations, she struggled with selfdoubt, panic attacks, nightmares and the weight of whether or not to tell her terrible secret. It turned out cousin brian was abusing merryn s little sister, too.

Today, merryn, 28, is the founder of erins law, legislation that requires public schools to teach ageappropriate lessons on sexual abuse for children prek through 12th grade. They dont teach us about people like my cousin brian. She knew how to turn down smoking marijuana and getting high. Just weeks shy of my 7th birthday i was raped by my adult neighbor. Her mission is to take this law national as a means to protect.

Erin merryn knew how to say no when her friends invited her to drink. Fans of erin merryns heartwrenching debut memoir stolen innocence were left wondering what would become of an emotionally fragile erin after her confrontation with the reality and repercussions of being a child of incest and molestation. My name is erin merryn, i am a 30 year old from the suburbs of chicago. Erin merryn is an author, activist, speaker, and the force behind erins law. Sex abuse survivor speaks out against keeping secrets. She is the founder of erin s law, which requires public schools to teach children personal body safety on the prevention of child sexual abuse. Erin merryn essays her journey from a childhood in which she was sexually abused by an uncle of a friend and later by her own cousin, to her adulthood where she began to speak out about her experience, fight for the rights of children and eventually start a petition that resulted in what is called erins law. He is an actor and producer, known for mandroid 1993, star trek. In living for today, erin chronicles how she cultivated. It is the first law passed in the us requiring sexual abuse prevention education. Guest erin merryn, the founder of erins law, joins don lemon to describe the meeting she had with the duggar family. Merryn is an author and activist against sexual abuse who founded erins law, which requires school to offer ageappropriate instruction on body safety and.

Pat quinn lauded elgin activist erin merryn for her work to protect children from sex abuse during a gala to raise funds for the childrens advocacy center saturday night. Breanna stewart finds outpouring of support after opening. Merryn suffered sexual abuse by a male neighbor at ages six to eight and by a teenage cousin at ages 11 to. It changed me from a strong, resilient, confident child to a very angry, hatefilled, selfdestructive child. Your input is vital in the planning and implementation of the parent and family engagement program and activities in our school. Merryn now had a duty as a big sister to protect her younger sibling. Of course i was asked what i was referring to and i said my cousin brian has been doing bad things. Shes taken her personal crusade and turned it into a public one. The actor behind moff gideon shares how he found his voice with a little help from james earl jones. The momtobe and champion of erins law plans to travel to canada and later australia to encourage schools to teach ageappropriate curriculum on. Erin merryn a voice for the voiceless author, activist, speaker, wife, mother, and force behind erins law glamour magazine 2012 woman of the year. Advocate spreads message to protect children from sexual abuse. At a family gathering at her grandparents lake house, she awoke in the middle of the night to find her cousin brian again, not his real name, then, lying next to her with his hands down her underwear. Erin merryn author, activist, speaker, erin merryn.

Sexually abused and raped from age 68 by an adult neighbor erin was threatened to. She is the founder of erins law, which requires public schools to teach children personal body safety on the prevention of child sexual abuse. As the parentguardian of a child attending a title i school, you are an important part of the title i team. Erin merryn is author of stolen innocence, living for today, and an unimaginable act. She was named glamour magazine woman of the year in 2012 and a people magazine hero among us for her tireless work promoting erins law nationwide with a mission to our keep children safe by educating them about personal body safety. Earlier this year, new jersey state senator, anthony bucco morris and somerset sponsored a bill no. He little sister was also being sexually assaulted by her cousin. Helping abused children reclaim their voice daily chronicle. Requiring personal body safety education in public schools. As for richard i believe he is living in a dark world.